“Do not bring people in your life who weigh you down. And trust your instincts … good relationships feel good. They feel right. They don’t hurt. They’re not painful. That’s not just with somebody you want to marry, but it’s with the friends that you choose. It’s with the people you surround yourselves with.”
— Michelle Obama
There’s an unusual idea has been making its way around that’s set on the belief that love in the media is weakness. And perhaps, in the real world though I’ve been fortunate enough never to witness this. You’d think Once Upon A Time’s late Cora Mills is in position of their hearts or something. But there’s no theory or idea that’s more laughable, and I say that with the utmost respect. There are a number of opinions that differ from mine that I could respect, turn the other cheek, and agree to disagree on, but when said idea is damaging and leads to young women believing that strength is coldness and isolation, I draw the line. There’s great bravery in honesty and it takes more courage to be vulnerable than it does to build a wall. It takes more courage to understand and explore our feelings than it does to shut them off. It takes strength to fall into the great unknown with a partner that we’re willing to share our entire lives with. Strength is understanding the difference between right and wrong. Strength is understanding our value and trusting our instincts in every obstacle we face. And when someone is right for us, they don’t take those things away from us, they don’t dim them or lock them away, they welcome them with open arms and admiration.
There’s no feeling quite as indescribable as finding a fictional character to care deeply for. A character who we perhaps see ourselves in or a character who’s just so well written, it’s difficult to turn the other cheek. There are a number of fantastic TV characters — whether heroes or villains or somewhere in between, they’re so well written, they become a part of us. They become someone we cherish, someone we want the best for. They become someone we’re constantly in awe of. And 2016 has truly been one of the best years in the world of television. It’s been a strong, undeniably powerful year for complex, incredible characters.
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25 Nearest and Dearest 12/25
Pearson Specter Litt (Suits)
Suits is perhaps the most intriguing series focus on lawyers I’ve ever seen, and it is entirely due to the amazing dynamics within the Pearson Specter Litt law firm. And while the friendships were always fascinating, the incredible turn they’ve taken this season alone are brilliant. In the beginning, it was about what’s best for the firm, and while that’s still a top priority, today, their loyalty to one another has been tested more than a newfound theory. Now there’s absolutely no question that they’d always choose each other. Harvey, Mike, Jessica, Donna, Rachel, and Louis will have each other’s backs to the very end. Whatever it comes down to, they’ve grown to care for one another in unimaginably overpowering ways. Whether the firm is forever or not, their places in each other’s are unalterable.
Gina Torres (Suits)